I attempted the vintage housewife challenge last year but fell short in my efforts once spring rolled around. I have a suspicion all the schedules and lists I am finding online where the typical SUBURBAN 1950’s housewife schedule. I live on a small family farm in the Northeast, we are somewhat rural, but not as isolated as families would be on a Midwestern ranch. In the spring and summer I am out helping my husband with the crops, animals, and harvests, I deliver orders to stores, and also spend a significant amount of time running to get tractor parts and taking kids to sporting events. It is not humanly possible to tackle the daily schedule of a 1950’s housewife for me during the spring and summer months, but winter and fall are a whole different story!
I am undeterred by my previous attempt and trying this again! I have created a simple printable to keep myself on schedule during the day if you are joining me in the 1950’s housewife challenge you can get your copy FREE when you subscribe to get emails from The Vintage Housewife to hang on your fridge: Subscribe to the Weekly email!
The schedule which has been widely circulated on the interwebz, and greatly debated, but does seem to be an accurate representation of the typical middle-class suburban 1950’s housewife’s day, and will provide structure for my day going forward. I will undertake all my daily tasks as authentically as possible. The typical family only had one car, which means less impulsive trips into town for me. I will manage the household finances frugally, and provide tasty full meals, complete with dessert DAILY. I will also put forth an effort to bring a little bit of glamor to my appearance (goodbye, yoga pants, and messy hair knot! ).
Daily Schedule for the 50’s Housewife:
- Throw back the covers
- Open up the blinds and windows
- Freshen up
- Make and serve breakfast
- Clean up breakfast
- Complete a 10-minute exercise regime
- Shower, do hair and makeup, get dressed
- Gather a basket for tidying. As the rooms of the home are tackled, pick up items that aren’t where they belong and place them in a basket. Redistribute them where they should be as you enter a new room
- Straighten up the living and dining room, including picking up potential clutter, light dusting, fluffing/straightening pillows, and watering plants or flowers
- Make the beds
- Tidy the bedroom, including light dusting
- Hang up any clothes that may be about or ensure dirty ones are in the hamper
- Do a light tidy of the bathroom including removing and replacing used towels, refilling toilet paper and soap (if needed) and cleaning the sink and basin area including soap dishes
- Review the menu for the current day and the next and compare it to what’s currently available in the home. Make note of anything that needs to be prepared ahead of time or marketing (shopping) that needs to get done
- Begin long-advance preparations for dinner (such as making dessert)
- Wipe down kitchen work surfaces and inside the fridge
- Dispose of garbage
- Rinse dish cloths and hang to dry
- Sweep or mop the kitchen floor
- Handle errands that might take you out of the home (such as marketing, volunteering, going to the post office, getting an item fixed, etc), bookkeeping, correspondence, or indulge in a hobby
- If returning from the grocery store, wash vegetables, wrap them and put them away. Place rest of groceries or purchases in their proper place
- Have a quick lunch
- Start advance food conditioning like crisping vegetables or thawing frozen foods
- Handle weekly chore for the day (more on that below)
- Set the table for dinner
- Arrange the living room for evening enjoyment (such as “the Mister’s” newspaper, book, and cigarettes)
- Do a quick sweep of the floors and ensure entrance ways are clear
- Prepare a special dish for dinner
- Freshen up before the husband returns from work. Consider changing into something more festive if the day dress is plain
- Set out a tray with equipment for making cocktails, should “the Mister” want to serve drinks before dinner
- Greet husband “gayly”
- Serve dinner
- Clear table and wash dishes
- Pour boiling water down the sink to ensure pipes are flushed
- If necessary, pack the husband’s lunch for the next day. Set aside a lunch tray in the refrigerator for yourself if having leftovers
- Set table for breakfast
- Ensure breakfast foods are available and do any make-ahead preparations for it
- Enjoy an evening of relaxation
Also, each day there is a once-a-week chore to tackle, such as:
- Use metal polish on bathroom fixtures
- Clean and disinfect all kitchen appliances
- Scald and disinfect bread boxes and garbage pails and bins
- Replace flowers with fresh bouquets
I grew up in the 50’s and believe me my Mom’s routine was nothing like this. It is someone’s idea of what they thought it should be like.
Do you know what hers was like?
Loved this post….sounds very much like Flylady…just in a different order and with Daily Focus (chore a day) rather than same chores everyday…I follow Flylady (as best I can) and find I am doing more everywhere but have less to do! Yep…you read that correctly! I push myself to get it done and then I can ‘reward’ myself with time to do what I want….it worked when all five children lived at home and I ran my own business too! Now only my 10yo daughter at home (and hubby) and it still works like a dream.
I’ve ditched the microwave (cook all meals from scratch or steam to reheat), I’m ditching my mobile phone, the toaster is on the blink so that won’t get replaced when it finally gives up and I air dry everything (and iron 15mins a day to keep on top of that!) I have a vacuum cleaner, washing machine and currently a dishwasher (that I inherited with the house….it also won’t be replaced when it dies!) You spend longer browsing rubbish on phones than you ever will washing up a few plates and cups!
Will be reading more posts….thanks! xx
I think such a schedule really was easier to handle back in the day because homes were smaller and people had far less stuff! There were also fewer distractions. My Grandmother also taught me (or tried) to NOT make such a mess and then it is not necessary to clean so much! (she was an immaculate housekeeper and could do anything – always reminded me of Martha Stewart’s mother)
And I agree with an above comment, children were not only expected to help around the house, they were required to – for it teaches them not only good habits but values such as responsibility, taking care of one’s belongings, respect, and helping others. Also, laziness was a completely unacceptable behavior! And we all know the old saying about idle hands! Haha
Today mom’s are frazzled as they try to take care of everything while kids are laying around watching tv or playing video games.
Moms today also spend half their lives driving kids around to school and numerous activities – this was just not done in the past. Kids typically lived close enough to school to walk or ride the bus and the activities were usually at the school or nearby.
This excerpt from the 1950s household seem to have meant a couple, since it had no children’s maintenance in it…
I found a new mother’s book from the 1950s which assumed that the family had 3-4 kids within 5 years or so…
Can you imagine having 2 or 3 kids in diapers at the same time, with a wringer washing machine ?!!
Wow,and I thought I had laundry problems! Just thinking about have two tots in diapers and having to wash by hand, seems like it would take up a lot of the day!
This exact routine comes from a blog called Jen but Never Jenn, back in 2010. She got it out of the Bride’s Reference Book, published in 1948. And, yes, it is a recommendation for a new, middle-class, suburban housewife!
I own and read regularly a small library of antique books on housekeeping (1900’s to the 1960’s). From what I have read housewives were not as busy as we believe them to be. They had daily chores, weekly chores, monthly chores and seasonal chores that included things like cleaning the siding on the outside of the house. But they had plenty of time for socializing with their friends often, being part of women’s clubs and being on the PTA. Not to mention that your kids can help with the chores like they did in the bygone eras. My mother (born Oct 1951) had a list of chores she and her sisters did as children.
Now a days there are some great cleaning hacks and products that will cut the cleaning time in half even if you follow the “1950’s housewife” schedule. Even using green/environment friendly products and recipes.
I was a live-in housekeeper when I was in college and trust me- most of the daily chores and even weekly are maintaining the cleanliness of the house and not having to deep clean everyday. When I started working for the family that employed me the chores took forever but as the house was being maintained what would take many hours soon turned to one or two hours of work.
If you are interested in finding out more about a “vintage” cleaning schedule I recommend the Housewife’s Handbook a WISE Book (by the WISE publishers as part of a collection). It is from the late 50’s early 60’s. I have a couple copies and buy it whenever I see it in decent condition at thrift stores. I give it as part of a gift at bridal showers. I also plan on putting a copy in each of my daughters’ hope chests.
I came across this chore list as well and have completed my own 1950’s housewife challenge list. Even though it was so much work to do, I loved the end results so I continue to do it now lol. Only thing is I am using my dryer and microwave and cell phone because I do run a business so I can’t logically and reasonably get rid of that lol. Other than that, it’s all pretty authentic.
I subscribed to your newsletter and received the “confirm your email” message but never got the printables. Also, how soon should I start receiving your newsletters?
Hi Jennifer!
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I came upon your blog and loved it. I was wondering will you be continuing blogging ? I haven’t seen every many article this year.
Hi Jessica,
Thank you so much for stopping by, you are right things have been a little quiet around here, but Yes, I am continuing! I am doing basic site maintenance this week, but really going to start blogging again after Labor Day.
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Hi Ash,
First of, Thank you very much for pointing this out to me!!
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