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The 1950’s Housewife Challenge

Chances are you have seen the “Good wife Guide”. This guide originally started as a chain email (remember those?) but it is now more frequently shared on Facebook. There are usually some remarks about how far we’ve come as a society, and then it usually gets torn to shreds about the sexist treatment of women. I am not here to argue about whether a woman belongs in the kitchen or the boardroom, that decision is personal, and honestly, I think a woman belongs wherever she feels the most fulfilled.

This list of the ideal characteristics of a wife has launched many 1950’s Housewife Challenges, women undertake the role of 1950’s super-wife for a brief period of time. I admit I am curious if the soft skills of the 1950’s housewife would have an impact on my marriage, if daily life will run a little smoother in my household if everything is exceptionally tidy, and most of all I am curious will I resent my family’s slobbish tendencies after I spent the majority of my time cleaning?

THE GOOD WIFE’S GUIDE

The following is a viral post that is presented as an excerpt from a 1950’s home economics textbook intended for high school girls, teaching them how to prepare for married life. However, Snopes discredited this claim. While the list may not be an authentic period publication I do believe it to be a relatively accurate reflection of the mainstream vision of a woman’s role in post-war America, and therefore will be using this as a daily guide during my 1950’s Housewife Challenge.

  • Have dinner ready: Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal — on time. This is a way of letting him know that you have been thinking about him, and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they come home and the prospects of a good meal are part of the warm welcome needed.
  • Prepare yourself: Take 15 minutes to rest so you will be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your makeup, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh looking. He has just been with a lot of work-weary people. Be a little gay and a little more interesting. His boring day may need a lift.
  • Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives, gathering up school books, toys, paper, etc. Then run a dust cloth over the tables. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift, too.
  • Prepare the children: Take a few minutes to wash the children’s hands and faces if they are small, comb their hair, and if necessary, change their clothes. They are little treasures and he would like to see them playing the part.
  • Minimize the noise: At the time of his arrival, eliminate all noise of washer, dryer, dishwasher or vacuum. Try to encourage the children to be quiet. Be happy to see him. Greet him with a warm smile and be glad to see him.
  • Some Don’ts: Don’t greet him with problems or complaints. Don’t complain if he’s late for dinner. Count this as minor compared with what he might have gone through that day.
  • Make him comfortable: Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or suggest he lie down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for him. Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low, soft, soothing and pleasant voice. Allow him to relax and unwind.
    Listen to him: You may have a dozen things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first.
  • Make the evening his: Never complain if he does not take you out to dinner or to other places of entertainment; instead, try to understand his world of strain and pressure, his need to be home and relax.
  • The goal: Try to make your home a place of peace and order where your husband can relax.

The Daily Schedule for the 50’s Housewife

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MY TAKE ON THE 1950’S HOUSEWIFE CHALLENGE

This challenge is not new, in fact, it has been done numerous times by many different bloggers. Some focus on appearance, other’s on relying less on modern conveniences, both are fun and worthy causes!

My desire is perhaps a little more subtle. Today, there seems to be so much hostility, rules of decorum seemingly thrown out the window. I long for the grace and thoughtfulness that the mid-century woman embodied.  I will create a haven at home, nurture my family, and socialize the way women in the 1950’s would have. I will be gracious and kind, striving to make everyone around me feel comfortable and liked.

I will also undertake my daily tasks as authentically as possible. The typical family only had one car, which means less impulsive trips into town for me. I will manage the household finances frugally, and provide tasty full meals, complete with dessert DAILY. I will also put forth an effort to bring a little bit of glamor to my appearance (goodbye, yoga pants! ).


Want to follow along with my 1950’s Housewife Challenge? Becoming the ultimate 1950’s housewife seems like a big goal, so I will be undertaking one specific aspect of the Challenge each week, adding habits and traits in subsequent weeks. Follow along on Facebook or Instagram for peaks into my day throughout the week, or sign up to my email list to get my weekly updates delivered directly to your inbox!

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Vintage Lifestyle – Autodidact Log

Wednesday 10th of November 2021

[…] maintained house can certainly be a more than full time job! I’m particularly thinking of the Vintage Housewife Challenge which is a pretty impressive list of how a woman from years ago would have kept house. Obviously […]

Lisa

Sunday 31st of October 2021

Is there a good link for the challenge? The email I received contains a dead link.

Theresa Clor

Saturday 23rd of October 2021

WOW! If that's an actual choice for you, go for it. Problem is costs. To have a good standard of living in most areas of the country both spouses must work. If you marry a wealthy man or one who has a large paycheck, that's the exception. I do love the routine of properly taking care of a home. I find satisfaction in having a neat, tidy and reasonably clean house. Clutter and chaos are depressing. Also, one must consider the obvious- death of spouse, loss of employment or a disability. Divorce. Always have a skill or occupation that you can fall back on. Within limits, do what makes you happy and satisfied but be practical. All the best

Dawn

Friday 26th of February 2021

I am so happy to have found your website! Last night and this morning I was watching vintage housewife videos from the late 40s and 50s on YouTube, when I came across your vid on being a 50s housewife for a week. I loved it! I followed the link for the schedule and loved your website! The content truly projects a welcoming and friendly atmosphere. This even came through in your welcome email. I’m excited to get started!

Jacquelyn French

Thursday 6th of May 2021

I just saw the YouTube video today and clicked the link. I wish i could print the forms that are displayed

Hanna

Wednesday 17th of February 2021

I have just found out your blog and it is amazing. I am Latina and living in Latin America and even if I have been studying a long and demanding career I have always dreamed of living a simple life and being feminine and sweet and also the best wife and housewife for my future husband and children. I am 24 and in Spanish L barely can find blogs like this, with yours I have learned so much about improving my inner self and learning useful tips and delicious meals. Love this blog.

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